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+title: Sexuality
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+Introduction
+============
+
+It is common, for cisgender people (people whose gender identity matches
+the one they were assigned at birth), especially parents after their
+kids come out (whether grown up or still children), to assume that being
+trans means you're *gay*, because they assume by default that someone
+is attracted to a member of the opposite sex.
+
+This misconception can work in several ways, e.g.:
+
+-   Parent/relative/friend assumes that a trans woman is a gay man.
+-   Parent/relative/friend accepts the trans person's gender identity,
+    but thinks that they are attracted to a member of the opposite sex,
+    or that this change; e.g. they think that the trans woman (before
+    she came out) is now attracted to men.
+
+Generally speaking, it's never good to assume someone's sexuality. A
+trans person can be heterosexual, gay/lesbian or bisexual.
+
+This comic from *Assigned Male* by Sophie Labelle has some more insight:
+<https://78.media.tumblr.com/11a87057833740f5fab9b36c682f8030/tumblr_p83omi5VIq1tm163xo1_1280.jpg>
+
+Sex education booklet for trans youth
+----------------------
+<http://cdn0.genderedintelligence.co.uk/2012/11/17/17-14-04-GI-sexual-health-booklet.pdfhttp://cdn0.genderedintelligence.co.uk/2012/11/17/17-14-04-GI-sexual-health-booklet.pdf>
+
+Sex education for trans women
+----------------------
+Brazen's Trans Women’s Safer Sex Guide
+<http://librarypdf.catie.ca/PDF/ATI-20000s/26424.pdf>
+
+Booklet for trans women that focuses in the UK but is still relevant for everyone:
+<http://www.tht.org.uk/~/media/4653aa766e3f4c1286fc515f17146f32.ashx>
+
+Sex education for trans men
+============
+
+Sex education booklet for trans men that focuses in the UK but is still relevant for everyone
+
+http://www.tht.org.uk/~/media/8F7D70D8C3B643109351E3D9A633529A.ashx
+
+
+Sex education for gay trans men (trans men into into men)
+http://librarypdf.catie.ca/PDF/ATI-20000s/24654.pdf
+
+FTM Sex Talk (Q&A about trans men)
+
+<http://ftmsextalk.tumblr.com/>
+
+Rule of thumb
+-------------
+
+If a cis man likes only women, he is heterosexual/straight. If he likes
+men, he's gay. If he likes men and women, he's bisexual.
+
+If a trans man likes only women, he is heterosexual/straight. If he
+likes men, he's gay. If he likes men and women, he's bisexual.
+
+If a cis woman likes only men, she is heterosexual/straight. If she
+likes women, she's gay. If she likes men and women, she's bisexual.
+
+If a trans woman likes only men, she is heterosexual/straight. If she
+likes women, she's gay. If she likes men and women, she's bisexual.
+
+But it's not that simple!
+--------------------------
+
+There are other sexuality's, e.g. pansexual, demisexual, asexual, etc.
+Or aromantic/panromantic &lt;insert sexuality here&gt; here.
+
+What about non-binary people? A non-binary person is someone who
+identifies as neither strictly male or female at a given moment, or who
+switches identities, etc. There are many different types of non-binary
+trans people!
+
+***It's generally wrong to put labels on anyone. A person is who they
+are, and they like who they like. Get over it!***
+
+One thing is certain: sexuality has nothing to do with gender identity.
+Gender identity is who you are, and sexuality is who you want.
+
+Make sense now? Yes? Excellent!
+